How can you increase confidence? Certainly it also depends upon the way you look. One part of that is your body figure. The other is the grooming.
The first is relatively simple. Choose a workout routine that is apt for your body type and follow it regularly. When it comes to grooming you are your own guide, because it shouldn’t be me who should decide your style. But be careful to ask a third person if it is lame or not.
Happy couple workout together
I know this is an age old advice. But it is the corner stone of dating and mating. Attracting the opposite sex is indeed an act of confidence. From confidence I didn’t mean to blatantly believe that everything is going to be okay. No it is not.
My definition of confidence is that believing that everything is in your control. Believing that everything happening around me is the consequences of my efforts and I can make anything right if goes wrong. When you have this belief everything you do will reflect the gallons of confidences you have and women comes along your way as a moth towards the fire.
Couple on a street workout challenge
Where else can you show your confidence? I must say: everywhere. The way you behave, the way you talk, the walk you relax, everywhere. Contain yourself and carpe diem.
One tip to show confidence; never ask her if you can kiss. You should sense the moment and acquire it.
5 Tips for Married Couple to Enhance Love Life
1. Naked and Not Ashamed
Intimacy. Dictionary.com defines shame as “the painful feeling arising from the consciousness of something dishonorable, improper, and ridiculous.” Adam and Eve had just met, and yet they felt “naked and not ashamed.” There was an emotional, physical, and spiritual safety. Intimacy is the building block to great sex between you and your spouse.
2. Fly Solo with your Spouse
The sweetest sex occurs by taking the time to nurture the relationship with one person over time. Some say staying married to the same person is boring. Quite the contrary! It becomes an adventure to walk the twists and turns with your mate on this journey called life. We get to rediscover our spouse a new over time with the added benefit of knowing them from the past.
3. Have it!
In the busyness of life, it is amazing how easy sex is neglected in married couples. This is not specific to any particular phase of a marriage: newly married, preschoolers, teenagers and young adults. Somehow we think great sex comes when everything has to be perfect: the lighting, the place, the music. These are the icing, but sometimes you just have the cake, which can be equally satisfying.
4. Pleasurable techniques
Each spouse desires to satisfy their spouse sexually, yet may feel inadequate because they may lack the practical know-how. A good place to start is to just begin touching one another, especially the erogenous zones of the body: the genitals and breasts. Then share your preferences with one another. Do some research on fulfilling lovemaking techniques and utilize them. Even sensual massage can bring you closer.
Communication is simply talking about everything that makes sex better. Ambience, places, technique, and frequency are good ideas to begin to discuss with your spouse. If you want pleasurable lovemaking, then you must communicate your likes to your spouse. He/she cannot read your mind. You and your spouse can become the best sex coaches for your marriage if you are willing to communicate your sexual needs and desires.
What about you? Are you experiencing great sex as a married couple? Maybe the key is to schedule time for sex. Or maybe you need to get some valuable resources to educate yourself on better techniques to satisfy you spouse. Are you rediscovering your spouse? Remember, God desires sex for married couples to not be good, but great!